Arguing is in human nature to get your view granted, especially between two partners. It’s always not necessary that they lead to humiliating each other or add fuel to the fire, it may be a strong and positive way to find new ways in the course of married life.
Many individuals do not like arguing and want to avoid it anyhow that often results in anger and frustration that begins accumulating deep inside the person. In fact, arguments can clear many things like what is going on inside of you, as the other person cannot be a mind reader. It can illuminate new ways for growth and change.
Confined your emotions and how you feel about him or her will get you nothing, but if you express yourself, it will help in building trust between each other. But while arguing with each other be mindful it should not be full of hatred and anger. When you start feeling that your emotions are getting intense and controlling you, just withdraw and don’t return until you feel relaxed and feelings are settled. Try to make your partner understand about your views and how it can be useful for your relationship.
If you expect to get heard your feelings and emotions, just listen to your partner and try to understand the meaning behind his or her point of view, putting yourself into his shoe. Every coin has two faces and what you see depends what side of the coin you are facing. If you are successful in convincing your partner that you understand your partner’s point of view, you will definitely win your partner’s trust despite the fact that you disagree with your partner because the other person knows that in spite of the disagreement you are not going to ridicule the thoughts. Treat each other with the same feeling, as you want to be treated.
Don’t drag the past while arguing just to make your partner on the back foot, just let be gone be by gone because you can’t fix the past, moreover if you love your partner, winning in argument should not be a matter of prestige but the focus should be on resolving the problems between you two.
To err is human, to forgive is divine, so when you commit mistakes just accept it and your partner will definitely understand and respect you. Give a proper reason for your mistake, but don’t rationalize it. It will convey a message to your partner that you are open up to changes and can take…